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Vacation Bible School

UPDATE:  We regret to say that VBS for this year has been cancelled due to low registration.  Enjoy your summer and stay tuned to see what is in store for children in the fall!

Vacation Bible School is coming!  July 31st to August 4th, 9 AM to Noon.  Children age 3 and up are welcome.  Now is the time to register and save your child’s spot! It’s sure to be a fun week.  Fill out the registration form and send it in today!   VBSForm2017

Our new pastor arriving soon!

Our new full time pastor, Rev. Joy Toll-Chandler, begins her ministry at Hope UMC on the first of July!  Here is a message that she wrote to us as she was preparing for her move.

Hello to all the folks at Hope UMC! I am excited to be packing boxes and getting ready to move to Belchertown where I can get to know you all, and serve our loving God together.

My husband, Paul, and I are moving from Punta Gorda, FL and are anxious to get back to New England. We went to Florida after my youngest graduated from high school, as I was ready for both some warm weather and a bit of a change in my ministry. God blessed us with 9 warm winters, and I had the opportunity to serve as a Minister of Music and as a Director of Worship Arts in Presbyterian Churches there.  I studied music as an undergraduate, and then did graduate studies in church music at Concordia University. I loved directing music and arts programs, and I learned a lot about ministry during that time.

However, I have missed the pastoral ministry, and I have missed my family, and am so grateful to now be appointed to Hope UMC. My previous pastorates were in Maine and Vermont where I served mostly rural churches, as well as co-pastored a more suburban federated church (UMC/UCC). I think my strong points of ministry are pastoral care, preaching and worship leadership, and planning/organizing. I try hard to listen well, to be adaptable, to be creative, and to care deeply for people. I have trouble remembering names, so please help me out there! I will also need your help in getting to know the New England Conference, as my past ministries were in the Troy and Maine conferences, and I have been gone since they joined with the rest of New England.

Paul and I will be beginning our 25th year of marriage this summer! He has 2 children, Becky in Arizona with her son Karston, and Jacob in VT with his wife Jada and son Jacob. I have 2 children also, Adam who lives in Reading, MA with his wife Kim and my brand-new grandson Lincoln, and Tim who lives in California.

Besides the joy of spending time with our families, we enjoy exploring places we’ve never been, going camping (although we didn’t do that in FL!), watching movies, playing games, and doing a bit of golfing. I also consider myself “crafty” – enjoying knitting, needlecrafts, and some sewing – and I like to play mahjong with friends. I love to shop, and I also try hard to take care of myself and get regular walks in – so I am looking forward to walking to work from the parsonage. I really enjoy cooking but I like to eat out for lunches, and am hoping to find some folks to meet and chat with over lunch in Belchertown. Obviously, I also love music, and my favorite instruments are the piano and handbells.

I am anxious to hear more of who “you” are, what it is that you enjoy, and how you serve God in your community. See you all soon!

This is THE week!

Dear Church,

You are invited to some truly special, powerful events this week that are all designed to bring you closer to the experience of a genuine Easter in your own life.

We begin with Holy Thursday, 6 p.m. at the church. A simple meal, a shared communion and the remembrance of Jesus’ last meal with his disciples is an opportunity to be in community with one another and be spiritually–as well as literally–fed. If you have never attended Holy Thursday before, I encourage you to come. There really isn’t anything else like it in our year of celebrations (and if there is, it’s always based on this service! :-)). It’s the perfect way to open your heart for the rest of the week.

The prayer vigil starts directly after. A wonderful email about that already went out!

Good Friday service begins at 7 p.m. on Friday. This time is set aside to hear the story of Jesus’ betrayal and crucifixion. Even though this is one of the most challenging of events in the Christian calendar, there isn’t anyone who hasn’t endured their own “Good Friday.” To be present with hurt, betrayal, loss, unforgiveness and death is hard, hard, hard. But it is one part of Jesus’ story and one part of our own story. We come together as a community to remember that we are not alone in that pain.

Easter begins early with an ecumenical service at the Quabbin Tower. Reverend Clare Overlander, the interim minister at BUCC will lead this service and it promises to herald that divine sense of a dawning joy and freedom that Easter brings.

HUMC gathers at 10 a.m. for a beautiful celebration. Please bring your friends. We have many church members who struggle to get to church for various reasons. If you know anyone who could use some encouragement to come for Easter, or a ride, or assistance from their car (our handicap spots are limited), this is the moment to reach out. Reach out! Our liturgical dancers will uplift us, the music will transport us, the story will transform us.

I look forward to being in the rest of Holy Week with you! Know that all these services are created to serve you as you walk in faith, in doubt, in hope, in love, in forgiveness, in expectation, as you are, no part left out.

big blessings,

Pastor Sam

Holy Week Schedule

 

April 9th:  Palm Sunday

9 AM Sunday School

10 AM Worship; Come and receive the palms that commemorate Christ’s triumphant entry to Jerusalem.

April 13th: Holy Thursday

6 PM Holy Thursday service with a simple meal of bread and soup and Holy Communion

8 PM Prayer Vigil begins

April 14th: Good Friday         

3 PM Prayer Vigil ends with the tolling of the bell in remembrance of Christ’s death

7 PM Good Friday; The Passion Story

April 16th: Easter Sunday

6 AM Ecumenical Sunrise Service at the Quabbin Reservoir Tower

9 AM Sunday School

10 AM Grand Easter Celebration; Be inspired and uplifted by our spirit filled choir and our liturgical Rainbow Dancers. Refresh, restore, and renew your relationship with the one who called you beloved.

Reflection for the fourth week of Lent

Dearest Hope,

Yesterday’s powerful service touched so many of us–partly because so many of us have been touched by abuse, most as children. I could feel the love, compassion and solidarity in the sanctuary as Rick shared his heart and his life with us. His example of moving into forgiveness with his father was truly inspiring; where does it leave you as you think about those in your life who have hurt you?

We are deep into Lent now and Easter beckons. It’s time to look at the unforgiveness we hold against those who have deeply hurt, wounded or wronged us. Perhaps it’s abuse from your past or in the past of someone you love. Perhaps it’s a betrayal or even a death. This week, I invite you to face the big, dark, hard edges of that unforgiveness with the shining light of Christ.

If we want to forgive someone who hurt us very badly, how do we begin?

Psalm 118:5 “Out of my distress I called on the Lord; the Lord answered me and set me free.”

We absolutely most have God’s help in this endeavor. With God, it really is possible to forgive past hurts, even very big ones. Ask for God’s help. Say to God, “I really want to forgive this person, but I can’t. I don’t know how. It hurts too much. Help me. Show me how to forgive.” Listen for the promptings of the Spirit.

 

Then allow yourself to feel the loss, the grief, the hurt and the anger–not with the person, but by yourself! You can talk to a trusted friend or therapist or spiritual mentor, or you could write and write about it, or walk in the woods and think about it; however you can feel it and release it in a safe place. Pour out your bitterness, resentment and anger to God who will never tire of hearing you! Even if you tire of hearing yourself 😊

Then consider that forgiveness is an act of freeing ourselves from the pain of the past. You don’t forgive to free someone else. Do it for yourself. Unforgiveness keeps the past alive inside of us; we all know that the past is over. Whatever horrible events we endured, even though we may FEEL them still, we are actually in the present moment. Forgiveness frees us to live in the now and move into the life God has for us.

“Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.” Isaiah 43:18-19

 

Last, have patience. It can take many years, many practices (and sometimes it doesn’t!), and much reflection. With tenderness and compassion, approach this project as if you were the most beloved child of the Creator of Life–because you are.

many blessings,
Pastor Sam

Reflection for the Third week of Lent

Dear Hope,

Now that we are well into our Lenten journey thinking about forgiveness, I want to share some thoughts on the practice to incorporate during the week as you “fast” from unforgiveness.

The first is that forgiveness is very hard–most of the time. In conversations with parishioners, the difficulty of forgiving has come up many times. We all know how challenging it feels to attempt to forgive someone who harmed us deeply. On the other hand, we often struggle to forgive petty injustices as well. As Steve’s forgiveness testimony so beautifully illustrated, even small infractions can have far reaching effects. I think we all related to that experience.

The second thought is that forgiveness is so hard because we, generally speak, don’t understand it and don’t do it for the right reasons! Most of us are taught that we need to forgive for the other person’s sake. In truth, forgiveness is an act that sets US free. It’s possible for it also to free the other person, but when we “do” forgiveness as if we are giving someone who hurt us a gift, we often still feel hurt and resentful, maybe even thinking, “why do I have to be the bigger person?” Well, nobody has to be the bigger person. If you choose that role, you operate out of your higher identity, Christ in you, which brings us back into right relationship with God.

This past Sunday’s Gospel lesson included these words spoken by Jesus: “I am fed by doing the will of the one who sent me and by completing his work” (John 4:34). That’s fantastic! What fed Jesus was doing God’s work. It also fed other people, of course, but it fed HIM. We are fed when we do “God’s work” by forgiving. Give yourself that gift so you can experience the spiritual sustenance that comes with letting go of angry, hurting thoughts that don’t cause anyone suffering but yourself.

This week as you explore forgiving yourself, God and others, imagine it as an act of self-kindness. Here is some more inspiration from religious writers and teacher !

“Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude.” Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Forgiveness is the name of love practiced among people who love poorly. The hard truth is that all people love poorly. We need to forgive and be forgiven every day, every hour increasingly. That is the great work of love among the fellowship of the weak that is the human family.”  Henri Nouwen

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” Lewis Smedes

“People in general would rather die than forgive. It’s that hard. If God said in plain language. “I’m giving you a choice, forgive or die,” a lot of people would go ahead and order their coffin.” Sue Monk Kidd

“Forgiveness is not a one off decision; it is a journey and a process that takes time, determination, and persistence. Forgiveness is not forgetting; it is simply denying your pain the right to control your life.” Corallie Buchanan

Many blessings and keep letting me know how it’s going,
Pastor Sam